Needs: Needs may be viewed as an expression of deepest shared humanity. In non-violent
communication:
needs refer to what is most alive in us: our core values and deepest human longings.
Understanding, naming, and connecting with our needs helps us improve our
relationship with ourselves, as well as foster understanding with others, so we are all
more likely to take actions that meet everyone’s needs. (Kashtan & Kashtan, 2006).
This involves using words that describe shared human experience rather than words that
describe strategies.
In non-violent communication, the four components encourage individuals to take
responsibility for what they feel, need and request. An individual, therefore, practises such
communication and he or she changes before changing others. Those concerned also
begin to connect better with others when they sense what they are observing, feeling,
needing and requesting by listening, respecting and showing compassion from the heart.
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