client relationship and the local structures are designed to create a one centre of power. The structures often use violence or threat of violence and intimidation to control the conversations. The differences are significant between men and women in so far as engaging in public places, perhaps explained in the patriarchal set-up of our societies. However, there are similarities in responses between male and female respondents when it comes to engaging in social groupings. The conclusion here is that, conversations are taking place in groups where citizens or communities are in control of the spaces and agenda. This is different when public meetings take place where citizens are invited. Hidden and visible power is a characteristic of the nature of relations and does not encourage participation. 20