empowering the child brides through education. For the girls who were married to the men that
raped them it was difficult to proceed with education. This impacted on their employment
prospects Some respondents revealed that parents would chase away their child under the
assumption that if they sent that child to school she could not achieve much because she had
been raped and traumatised. Hence when they got married, they would become mere
housewives, fully dependent on the husband financially.
All of the child bride respondents reported that their daily work and chores caused them to
“suffer”, while only five (26%) of the non-child brides felt the same towards work and household
chores. The marriages were so dominated by spousal conflicts and disagreement to the extent
that most child bride respondents found it “difficult to make decisions” about their lives. Some
child brides left the abusive husbands but did not return to their original families and people did
not know where they went afterwards. According to some respondents, the child brides who fled
abusive marriages mostly ended up as prostitutes or street kids in other towns.
According to respondents girls were rushing into marriage whilst very young. As a result, the
child brides would not have even an Ordinary level certificate or a vocational training certificate.
According to both child brides and non-child brides, children were interested in living a high life
dominated by materialism and consumerism yet they cannot afford that kind of life.
The inevitable result of the materialism was that the girls got into marriages and became entirely
dependent on the husband. When that husband withdrew his money and began to neglect the
child bride poverty ensued. Such poverty would be deep-seated and difficult to deal with for the
child brides since they would usually be residing in completely new locations far from their
families and friends who can help them with money or in kind. As one older respondent
summarised “…she will grow up and age whilst her life is full of problems”.
According to respondents, most households were finding life tough due to the economic
hardships affecting the nation. Some families were farming on their pieces of land and were able
to sell some of their produce. However, others lamented the low rainfall that Goromonzi had
received in successive seasons recently and said agriculture was no longer producing as much
yields as in the past. For many families it had become impossible to make a living from
subsistence agriculture. Other families were struggling to buy inputs for their fields and had to
work as labourers in other people’s fields in exchange for money. One particular respondent
expressed her dislike of working as a farm/field labourers saying it was painful and its rewards
were not commensurate with the level of effort invested. Other respondents indicated that they
were surviving on proceeds from income generating projects such as hair salons at Majuru
growth point in Goromonzi. Other respondents indicated that they were dependent on the
earnings of one or more individuals who were involved in the informal economy in activities
such as ad-hoc panel beating, fixing cars, spray painting tubs and working as farm labour.
Another respondent expressly said her family was poor as they did not have anything to do to
improve their livelihood and that even if she was to find work she had no one to leave in charge
of her home in her absence. While some respondents were dependent on remittances from their
children in South Africa, others indicated that they did not hold their breath for those remittances
since times were also tough for those children in the diaspora.
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