“…My father found a man who was the same age as him who wanted to marry me.
I was 14. I did not like the situation and decided to run away the very day that I was
supposed to go to that man. I walked all the way to town and eventually I went to
Botswana. Life was difficult in Botswana because I did not know how to work yet I
needed food to eat and clothes to wear. I lived there for two years but life was very
difficult.…”
The fathers were actively working with older men whom they knew in trying to marry off their
children to these men. Such untenable situations demonstrate the need for fathers to return to
their protective roles as moral authorities within their family. There is a need to empower parents
with knowledge on the emotional, moral and psychological which they expose their children to
by pushing them into marriages with older men. Society as a whole needs to return to its senses
and stop condoning the idea that there can be a relationship between a teacher and a child or
between any old man and an underage girl.
8. Conclusions
The economy in Goromonzi district revolves around agriculture and the informal manufacturing
and services provision. Due to the economic challenges bedeviling the national economy, the
local economy in Goromonzi has slumped, causing widespread unemployment and poverty
which are operating hand-in-glove with multiple religious ideologies that pervade the district. As
a consequence of the economic and social problems being experienced in the district, the moral
fabric was torn, leading to the proliferation of social ills such as corruption, rape and sexual
immorality. These then acted as antecedents to child marriages as people grappled with poverty.
Poverty was identified as the biggest driver of child marriage as families and the girls themselves
saw marriage as a way out of poverty. Religious coercion of girls was also identified as a major
driving factor responsible for child marriages. After conducting virginity tests on young girls,
church officials were accused of basically “handing over” supposedly non-virgins into forced
child marriages with older men in the church.
Overall, marriage was found to be a negative experience for most child brides with the marriages
being blighted by financial difficulties and abuse of the child brides by the older husbands and
his other wife (or wives). It did not seem to be a greater cause of psychological problems than
later marriage, and marriage in the context of deepening poverty and changing mores may well
be a source of stress for all women, whether married early or not.
A qualitative case study such as the present inevitably raises more questions than it can answer,
but the views of the women interviewed in Goromonzi are considerable food for thought. The
causes of early marriage are clearly multiple and complex, and, accordingly, any policy to
address this will need to take into account the many factors seen to be operating. There are no
easy answers, and simply prohibiting child marriage, while necessary, will not deal with the
complex problems of poverty, family disruption, and changing cultural values. It is evident that
much more research is necessary before the very tentative conclusions of a small case study can
be generalized.
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