A Litany of Tragedies at the intersection of cultural practice and law
Listening to Patricia’s story, one is struck by the string of tragedies this young girl has had to endure
in her life. She was orphaned when her mother died and she never knew her father. Her
grandmother, Piwai then took over her care. At 14 she was then subjected to rape by a man she
regarded as her grandfather, resulting in her falling pregnant. While she told her great aunt, what she
got in return was disbelief and further abuse. When she eventually worked up the courage to tell
someone outside of the family about her ordeal, she still had to contend with the community
attempting to use customary processes to resolve the issue, including first reporting to the chief
before making a report to the police. All this time, vital time was being lost, time when medical
intervention could have saved Patricia the agony of carrying a pregnancy that was the result of rape.
When she was eventually reunited with her grandmother, it was to find that her grandmother was
about to use customary norms of refusing to have anything to do with her in order to force the
people who had abused her to come forward and explain what they had done to her granddaughter,
known in Shona as kuramwa. This was done little realizing the traumatic effect it would be having on
the young girl who was now having to sleep in police stations because her relatives refused to have
anything to do with her.
On-Going Counseling and Psychological Support to Victims and their Families is of Vital
Importance
While one might be tempted to blame Piwai for her reaction, one has to remember that faced
with a shocking and upsetting situation such as the rape of her granddaughter and in the
absence of alternative support and coping mechanisms, Piwai fell back on those customary
norms and practices that to her were familiar. This is because the reality is that for most
people, interface with the criminal justice system is still largely unfamiliar and therefore
remote.
Patricia’s story perhaps best illustrates the vital importance of on-going psychosocial care and
support not just for victims of sexual violence but also for their families and caregivers. A lot
of reliance is placed on the caregiver to support and provide on-going care to the victim but
rarely is counseling support provided to enable them to cope with not just the victim’s issues,
but their own feelings of anger, guilt and fear among others. It is therefore important that
caregivers be considered as a vital group that has to be targeted in any support interventions
for any victims of abuse.
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